Since I'm on a dating site, I note that I am still quite the same patterns .
a) The guy says he'll remember and never remember, what makes me anything but pride in the fact I'm relieved because it had not clicked.
b) The guy seems interested, but from my side it has not clicked. I tell myself that I should review for learn to know him better, but I choke.
Lately (that is to say my 2 meetings in 2010), the pattern b which is in force.
Dating is not really my favorite way to meet boys. In my case, the click- is either instant or after a time to be with the boy in a off date (colleague, friend, friends, etc..). I've never had a date where the click-was instantaneous. Except that the very context of date makes it impossible to rub out the person date.
So, after a first date where it has not clicked on my side, I never know how much I have to "force" to review the boy or not. It means, if I really had a bad night, I do not want to see him again. But "often", I spend a nice evening anyway. I'm used to having male friends, so it may well be that I get really well with a boy but I do (it) not more feeble.
short, I had a date with a boy two weeks ago. I spent a lovely evening, but it has not clicked on my side. I told myself that I still see him a second time, but as time progresses, it seems to me that more and more I want to choker.
For example, yesterday morning, every morning, I logged on msn, taking my coffee. I was then greeted by a Good morning, followed by a Slept well?
There, do not rock me please pitcher, but that it annoys me. We saw each other once. I find it a bit too small attentions. I know that many girls would love this kind of attention. And it does show that he wants to please awkwardly. This is really sweet, and I believe that if the I find it interested me guys cute (but somewhat têteux anyway). In his case, it just makes me angry and glimpse the second date (if any) as a chore.
So I do not know what to do. I do not fooling around either. ---
Otherwise, in the space of eight days, I learned that the two boys I was interested (interest is a big word, or rather boys as various circumstances brought me to be with and that I would have liked to know more) were a couple or (newly) married. FAIL. But at least I am encouraged by saying that there were still two I was interested in boys, which usually happens once every 6 months.
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A colleague went on a trip three weeks and she challenged me to have 2 dates with different boys during his vacation. The guy who says "Good morning" does not count.
It will be difficult.
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